Adult ADHD + 7 Effective Tips to Improve Your Energy

 

“My energy is often low. I just can’t keep up with my work. School always came easy for me.  But, during the last few years at my job and now in business school, I’m drowning and wonder if I have adult ADHD or something else?”

Tina*, a 27-year-old married graduate student. Her primary care doctor referred her to me. She described chronic anxiety, low mood, and trouble sleeping for the past two years and had been struggling with “keeping up with it all”. This included her schoolwork, relationship, a part-time job, and her one-year-old baby. Also, she experienced similar symptoms throughout school, especially as the course load became more challenging.

In the past, she had been diagnosed with anxiety disorders and depression and her doctor tried her on two antidepressants that both caused intolerable side effects. When we met, her top complaints were feeling overwhelmed and discouraged.

During an extensive evaluation, I diagnosed her with ADHD, inattentive type. She did not have depression or an anxiety disorder.  As she became more organized, she felt less anxious. Her mood improved.

However, despite ADHD treatment with medications and therapy, she continued to exert significant energy “just to keep up”. This is often true for adults with ADHD.

Therefore, people with ADHD often experience difficulty maintaining their energy. Here are some tips to energize your life as you cope with ADHD. I hope they help you on your journey to success.

1.  Observe Rumination

Rumination is thinking about the same thing over and over. Thus, it can sap your energy. Also, people with Adult ADHD may be more prone to rumination due to difficulty shifting gears.

Furthermore, attempting to stop the thoughts can make them persist. Instead, label them as “ruminating thoughts”.  Thus, one technique that you may find helpful is saying,  “Oh…there is obsessing”, or “Oh…there’s worry”. Just observe what happens. Research has shown that this can lower the intensity and duration.

2.  Increase Structure

Another effective tip is increasing structure. Also, people with ADHD often struggle with a cluster of cognitive skills called executive functions. Executive functions include time management, initiating tasks, organization, follow-through, and prioritizing. This often can lead you to have lower energy. Challenges in executive function can lead to anxiety and feeling exhausted.

Having a schedule or “game plan”, can help one feel calmer.  Also, using a calendar, either paper or digital can help structure tasks and time. Therefore, increasing structure can help with productivity and organization.

3.  Challenge Your Inner Critic

Also, many people with Adult ADHD often feel they never are going to catch up or achieve their goals. Therefore, this may be due to painful experiences in the past. You may recognize some of the self-talk:

●    “Why am I always screwing things up?”
●    “My work is never good enough.”
●    “This will never work for me.”

Moreover, this type of self-talk is often called the inner critic. This can sap energy similar to rumination. Often, I encourage my patients to do the following:

●    Notice the inner critic.
●    As above, label it. “Oh….There is the inner critic.”
●    Remind yourself: “I am a work in progress”.

Therefore, the principles of challenging the inner critic can help you improve your energy. Furthermore, these principles are based on decades of research from the field of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

4.  Improve Sleep

There has been more attention over the past decade on sleep and the impact of sleep deprivation.  Restorative and adequate sleep is important not only for energy but also for cognitive functioning. Sometimes, ADHD symptoms may worsen during periods of interrupted sleep, insomnia, or sleep deprivation.

Some tips to improve intermittent sleeping difficulties include:

●    Avoiding electronic devices for three to four hours prior to bedtime.
●    Establishing a consistent, evening routine.
●    Creating a calm, uncluttered sleeping environment.
●    Using earplugs or a white noise machine if needed.
●    Exercising during the day and not within three hours of bedtime.

If you suffer from significant low energy during the day or chronic insomnia, it is important to seek treatment from your doctor about potential underlying medical causes of fatigue.

5.  Play and Relax

Often, people with ADHD feel so overwhelmed or without enough time that play, relaxation or pleasurable activities are ignored. People may say, “I don’t have time to relax play” or “I don’t deserve to do that”.  However, play can energize you and help you have a better outlook and be more productive. Some potential activities may include watching a comedy, playing with your dog, visiting friends, or pursuing an artistic passion.

6.  Set Goals

Just like a map, having specific goals can help you stay on track. As you make progress in your goals, it can provide momentum and guidance on your journey. I would recommend that you set several create both short-term (e.g. one month) and long-term (e.g. one year) goals.

Effective goals usually have specific outcomes (e.g. increased sales by $10,000 or eating meals with the family three times a week), a game plan or strategy, and most importantly, a means to measure the outcome (e.g. a chart or checklist).

7.  Work out

Finally, cardiovascular exercise such as biking, running, dancing, swimming, and other activities are good for our overall health. In addition, cardiovascular exercise can improve our sense of well-being and energy.

There are many hypotheses why cardiovascular exercise has this benefit including releasing endorphins and increasing a “motivational transmitter” called dopamine.

SUMMARY

In summary, adult ADHD can be very challenging as you pursue success in your personal and professional life. However, I hope these seven ideas help to provide you the stamina and energy to achieve your potential.

If you would like to learn more about Adult ADHD and coping strategies, please visit my website at www.scottshapiromd.com.

*Disclaimer: Details of cases have been altered to protect the confidentiality of any and all individuals.